is trying to maintain your complete sense of self and independence.

Maybe there are people out there who have already mastered this art, but I for one have yet not had this luxury or skill (whatever you want to call it).

I fail miserably when in love. And then am torn to shreds when it's all over.

Yes, valentines day is once again upon us. A day I dread most when I am "alone". Like when old broken bones occasionally hurt when it's cold and humid, the heart clenches so tightly during these so-called love-filled romantic festivals.

Still, I am happy to be on my own this year. Especially as I am able to receive so much more love from my friends, my family, myself... and then some. ;)

Hope you're feeling loved this day. If not, bear in mind there's a lot coming your way.

Happy Valentines Day.